October 6 marked the second anniversary of this blog. Yippee.
It also marked the who knows how many anniversary of me not working on my birthday.
As a freelancer, I used to make sure I had no interviews or articles to write on my special day.
When I taught, I would always make sure that my classes had a paper to revise or research that day. Or perhaps I’d assign an online scavenger hunt. But I didn’t go to class and teach.
Now, with a regular office job, I took the day off. Unpaid even as I’m out of vacation days. Even still — it’s worth it.
Why? Here are my 10 ten reasons:
- Sleeping in. Even now that I have a kid to get on the bus in the morning, I can still go back to bed afterwards and snooze a little longer.
- Getting to read in bed before starting the day in earnest. Always a treat.
- No time limit on birthday lunch. It can take as long as I want and be wherever I want. I would love for it to be at Pompeii, my favorite Italian sandwich shop in Chicago, but living in North Carolina makes that more difficult these days.
- Flexibility on movie matinee. By going to a movie in the middle of a weekday on my birthday, I can see whatever movie I want without worrying whether or not the person accompanying me will also enjoy it.
- Time for a leisurely chai. With a book, outside on a sunny Fall day is even better.
- Ability to shop without a child in tow (and parent who enjoys retail therapy gets me there). Plus, there’s the added benefit that buying things on your birthday is really just getting yourself presents and therefore totally legit.
- Exercise without a deadline. Since I don’t have to go to the office, I can go on a hike or go for a run or go to a Zumba class (if I am so motivated) without the pressure of getting home and showered and back out again in time for work.
- Dinner reservations made easier. Simply book a table at a favorite restaurant without worrying about finishing up a task at work before the appointed time.
- Luxury to decide not to do any of the above things and simply hang out on the sofa all day watching HGTV.
- Me time. Everyone needs a mental health day every once in a while. I make my birthday a day to do whatever I want to do, without guilt. The only mandate is that I relax and enjoy myself. To me, even as I move into my mid-40s, that is what birthdays are all about.
Well, that and cake…always cake.